But more importantly, you feel sad and heartbroken, and you accept the fact that you’re sad and heartbroken.
Being emotionally available means being open to getting hurt, and it also means being open to the deepest and juiciest kind of love possible. You can’t open up to one and not the other.
You’re a type 3 nice guy who thinks that women should want to date you and fuck you because you’re a nice guy.
Real talk: if you can’t have a sexual health conversation before having sex, you shouldn’t be having sex.
And I’d already made up my mind; I was going to blow him.
Sure, it feels good when someone tells you that you’re doing a great job at work or that you’re a fantastic and sexy person, but it’s a fleeting reward.